50 Questions To Spark Meaningful Conversation With Your Beloved

Our friends at Nectar Yoga on beautiful Bowen Island in B.C. created this list of intentional questions to help you slow down and connect with your partner on a deeper level on Valentine’s Day (and any day, if you want to stagger the questions out or revisit some of them again later down the road). So sit down with your beloved in a comfortable, quiet, uninterrupted spot in your home with a beverage of your choice, light a fire or a candle to set the tone of the evening, cosy up with a blanket and ask each other the questions below; it’s the perfect way to turn inwards together and root deeper into the potency of your relationship and all that makes it unique. —Vita Daily

1. What are three strengths that we have as a team?
2. What do you remember thinking to yourself the first time you saw me?
3. How and when did you know we’d be a couple?
4. When did you know you were in love with me? Where were we?
5. What are three qualities about me that you were first attracted to?
6. What are three of your happiest memories of our early days together?
7. Is there a smell or a sound or taste that you remember from those early days that still makes you smile?
8. How do I make you feel especially loved in our relationship?
9. What was your favourite date that we ever had? What made it so special for you?
10. What is one thing you think could make our relationship stronger?
11. What’s one relationship skill you’d like to learn or improve?
12. Is there a moment from your childhood that impacts decisions you make, and your outlook as an adult?
13. Who is someone you look up to and why?
14. What does your ideal Saturday morning look like?
15. What do you admire most about your parents?
16. In what scenario, if any, is it OK to lie?
17. What do you see as your best character trait?
18. When were you the most proud of yourself?
19. What do you think is the best way for us to motivate each other?
20. What mistake did you learn the most from?
21. What is the most important quality to have in a relationship to keep it strong?
22. If you could only celebrate one holiday each year, what would it be?
23. What helps you decompress after a particularly hard day?
24. What is your biggest fear in life?
25. If you had three wishes, what would you wish for?
26. If the world ended tomorrow, what would you do on your last day?
27. What’s something you’re glad you’ll never have to do again?
28. What is one behaviour that you never tolerate?
29. In your life, what has been the biggest blessing in disguise?
30. What’s one difference between us that you absolutely love?
31. What’s one similarity between us that you absolutely love?
32. What do you think was your most vulnerable moment in our relationship?
33. What’s one thing you think makes our relationship unique from everyone else’s?
34. What does love mean to you?
35. Where do you see yourself living when you retire?
36. Do you have any habits you want to change?
37. What’s the best advice you’ve ever received in your whole life?
38. When’s the last time you pushed out of your comfort zone? How did it make you feel?
39. What is the biggest lesson you’ve learned from previous relationships?
40. What’s the most challenging setback you’ve ever experienced? How did you overcome it?
41. What is your dream job?
42. What is the best way for me to tell you that I am out of balance?
43. How are you most comfortable letting me know that you are out of balance?
44. In the past week, what are you most grateful for in this relationship?
45. What inspires you?
46. Is life anything like you had pictured it would be growing up?
47. Is there anything you’d regret not having told someone?
48. What are some things in life that you had to learn the hard way?
49. What was your impression of me after our first date?
50. What do you want for us within the next year?

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